Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: Embracing Your Achievements with Confidence
By Megan Dalla-Camina, Women Rising Founder & CEO
Imposter syndrome is a widespread phenomenon that affects women across all professional paths. Despite significant achievements, many women find themselves haunted by self-doubt, fearing that they are imposters who will eventually be exposed.
This relentless mindset can impede both personal and professional growth, hinder career advancement, and undermine overall wellbeing. A recent study published in the Journal of Leadership & Organisational Studies highlighted that women in leadership positions who experience imposter syndrome often downplay their achievements, attribute their success to external factors, and face difficulties in asserting themselves as competent leaders. These self-doubts can lead to missed opportunities for advancement and decreased job satisfaction.
However, by understanding the nature of imposter syndrome and adopting strategies to overcome it, women can break free from its grip and confidently embrace their careers and leadership journeys.
UNDERSTANDING IMPOSTER SYNDROME
Imposter syndrome refers to a psychological phenomenon where women doubt their abilities and harbour a persistent fear of being exposed as frauds, despite concrete evidence of their competence. It is often accompanied by feelings of unworthiness, where success is attributed to luck or deception rather than merit.
Imposter syndrome can manifest in various ways, including:
a) Striving for perfection: Setting unrealistically high standards and feeling inadequate when those standards are not met.
b) Overworking: Believing that success is solely the result of hard work, leading to burnout and neglecting self-care.
c) Minimising achievements: Downplaying personal accomplishments and attributing them to external factors, like luck or the help of others.
d) Fear of failure: Feeling anxious about taking on new challenges or assuming that any mistakes will expose true incompetence.
PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTORS AT PLAY
Imposter syndrome can arise due to a combination of internal and external factors. Childhood experiences, societal expectations, gender stereotypes, or family dynamics, can contribute to the development of self-doubt. Additionally, cultural norms and biases can exacerbate imposter syndrome.
Cognitive biases, such as social comparison and the internalisation of gender stereotypes, can also play a significant role. Women experiencing imposter syndrome may compare themselves unfavourably to others, assuming that everyone else is more capable or talented. This skewed perception reinforces their self-doubt, making it challenging to recognise their own accomplishments and leadership potential.
OVERCOMING IMPOSTER SYNDROME AND NURTURING YOUR CAREER
- Celebrate and acknowledge your achievements: Begin by making a list of your accomplishments, both big and small. Reflect on the effort, skills, and dedication that went into achieving them. Recognising and celebrating your achievements will help build confidence and counteract feelings of being an imposter.
- Challenge negative self-talk: Identify and challenge the self-deprecating thoughts that fuel imposter syndrome. Learn to better understand your inner critic so you can challenge the negative stories. Practice self-compassion and remind yourself that making mistakes is a natural part of growth and learning.
- Seek support and mentorship: Reach out to peers, trusted friends, family, or mentors who can understand and empathise with your feelings of self-doubt. Discussing your experiences with others often reveals that many women share similar emotions. Their support and perspective can provide reassurance and help you gain a more realistic outlook on your capabilities.
- Embrace continuous learning: Shift your focus from seeking validation solely through outcomes to valuing the learning process. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth and skill development. Remember that even accomplished leaders face setbacks and failures along their journey.
- Cultivate a mindset of celebration: Allow yourself to celebrate your successes and milestones. Take pride in your achievements and recognise that your hard work and talents have contributed to your success. Celebrating accomplishments reinforces positive self-belief and helps counteract the negative effects of imposter syndrome.
Remember, you are not an imposter – you are capable, deserving, and worthy of every success that comes your way.
Here are ten practical takeaways that I teach in the Women Rising program, tested with more than 5,500 women globally, that can help you overcome imposter syndrome and nurture your career and leadership journey with confidence:
- Start each day with positive thoughts or affirmations to remind yourself of your worth and strengths.
- Break down larger goals into smaller, achievable tasks to avoid feeling overwhelmed and foster a sense of accomplishment.
- Prioritise self-care activities that rejuvenate and recharge you, such as exercise, nature time, reading, or mindfulness practices.
- Surround yourself with a supportive network of positive individuals who believe in your abilities and can provide encouragement.
- Maintain a gratitude journal to shift your mindset and cultivate gratitude and contentment.
- Practice self-compassion, treating yourself with kindness and understanding during moments of self-doubt.
- Celebrate even the smallest victories throughout the day, acknowledging tasks completed, new skills learned, or positive feedback received.
- Challenge negative thoughts by reminding yourself of past achievements and obstacles overcome.
- Embrace failure as an opportunity for learning and growth rather than a reflection of your abilities.
- Reflect on your progress at the end of each day, acknowledging tasks completed, challenges overcome, and the ongoing journey of growth.
By incorporating these practical tips into your daily life, you can gradually build resilience, self-belief, and a positive mindset, enabling you to overcome imposter syndrome and embrace your achievements with confidence. Remember, you are deserving of your success, and you have the power to conquer any self-doubt that may arise.
TIPS FOR LEADERS: SUPPORTING TEAM MEMBERS DEALING WITH IMPOSTER SYNDROME
Effectively managing team members of all genders who experience imposter syndrome requires leaders to be compassionate and supportive. Here are some tips to help you navigate this challenge:
- Foster psychological safety: Create an environment where team members feel safe discussing their self-doubt. Encourage open communication and assure them that their feelings are valid and understood.
- Offer specific feedback: Provide constructive feedback that highlights their strengths and achievements. Be specific about their contributions to boost their confidence and counteract self-doubt.
- Set realistic expectations: Help team members understand that perfection is not the goal and that mistakes are learning opportunities. Set achievable goals and emphasise progress over perfection.
- Encourage collaboration: Foster a collaborative culture where team members can support and learn from each other. Encourage mentoring and peer-to-peer coaching to build confidence and share experiences.
- Support professional development: Invest in their growth by offering training, conferences, and skill-building opportunities. Demonstrating a commitment to their development shows that their potential is valued.
- Practice empathetic listening: Be an empathetic listener, allowing team members to express their concerns and fears. Validate their feelings and provide reassurance, emphasising their unique skills and accomplishments.
- Lead by example: Share your own experiences with imposter syndrome and how you have overcome it. Show vulnerability, demonstrate self-confidence, and encourage a growth mindset within the team.
- Share resources: Provide relevant resources like articles, books, or development programs that address imposter syndrome. Support their journey with tools and knowledge to help them overcome self-doubt.
- Offer mentorship: Provide one-on-one mentorship to team members struggling with imposter syndrome. Guide and support them, offering personalised strategies to navigate their challenges.
- Promote self-care: Encourage self-care practices to help team members manage stress and maintain well-being. Emphasise work-life balance and the importance of self-compassion.
By incorporating these considerations into your leadership approach, you can create a supportive environment that enables team members to thrive, overcome imposter syndrome, and reach their full potential. Remember, your role as a leader is not only to achieve results but also to nurture and develop your team members.